Fifi, the whiskered soul

It all began with my cat blog articles over ten years ago. I was browsing through cat images when I reached an unusual cat breed, the ragdoll. I was captivated by its beauty and knew I had to have it. 

I moved in with my partner and thought it was time to get a cat. At the same time, my parents had a cat that gave birth to some gorgeous kittens, which happened to be Ragdolls with God’s grace. Fifi has been with us for 7 years. We adopted him as a kitten from my parents’ house and have cared for him ever since. He is the pampered spirit of our family, and we adore him.

Feline habits

Fifi loses a lot of hair in the fall (a normal process since cats lose their coats as the seasons change), so we take him to the vet three times a year to get his hair trimmed. Yes, you may differ, but the last time I put off cutting his hair, he struggled with hairballs and felt quite uncomfortable in the summertime heat.

He despises going to the vet because he needs to be anesthetized and exposed to other animals, plus he gets sick after we bring him home. He’s full of energy after a day or two, leaps around the flat, and is back to his old, cute self.

Fifi gets very enthusiastic, especially when I start work; he’s all over the place, begging for attention and love, trying to distract me from my tasks. This obviously does not work, and when that fails, he returns to his mischievous ways, dropping things down on purpose, and meowing like there’s no tomorrow.

He enjoys making biscuits, which I don’t necessarily object to; however, he has a propensity to do this on the pillows we sleep on, which is obviously unsanitary. We try things to get him off them, such as changing the sheets regularly and throwing a blanket over them.

He still does it when we aren’t looking and ends up getting argued over, while he meows back to us with confidence, indicating that he can’t alter the habit; let’s just say that the debates aren’t easy to finish.

Fifi only eats cat food, and we tried to entice him with human food without chance. He gets irritated when we buy food that he doesn’t like. He goes above and beyond his usual level of misbehavior and is a nuisance both during the day and at night. We’re at ease once we provide him with any meal he desires.

When we go on vacations, we always leave him with someone we know and trust to look after him, although he isn’t too fond of outsiders. When we return, he’s all lovey-dovey for a week or two. He purrs, meows, chats with us, and tells us how much he misses us; and maybe quarrels with us a little for spending too much time without him.

During the holidays, Fifi is the first soul to welcome the carolers, listening to those with a great voice or dropping his ears, and fleeing when he hears a kid whose carol he dislikes.

He has been involved in three accidents, which included jumps from our fourth-floor flat. We didn’t notice he was outdoors and fell the first time. We sought and found him later that night, hidden behind a car.

We couldn’t figure out why he leaped on his own the second time, he got a bit injured but recovered quickly. The third time was a little more severe, and he took a longer to recover; we found him hiding in a flat compartment on the exterior, all shaken and afraid.

We believe he is always at war with the birds, as there are several nests near our flat and he enjoys gazing out the window. One time I watched the birds pressuring him to jump again during the day, but he stood firm and was more cautious.

Conclusion

Fifi is incredible, and I’m thankful to have such a lovely cat in my life. While working from home might be lonely, I can’t say the same with this fluffy, purring being; it just adds up in the most elegant of ways. He’s always there when my day becomes tough and senses when I’m in distress, ready to soothe me. He’s a whiskered angel sent from Heaven who leaves paw prints in our hearts.

Quarantined with Fifi

Hello, my dearest ones, how is quarantine going?

I got to understand in this quarantine the importance of having a pet, a cat pet to be more precise. You never realize how important are these souls that surround you until something critical happens.

So, my day usually starts with Fifi waking me up and doing crazy things. Like scratching the chair or the door, eating the strands of the broom, biting my foot fingers, or just coming peacefully and starting purring on my chest.

When I am awake because of him, I want some coffee, of course. Fifi craves to sit on my lap, but it’s not so sure about it. Hence, he starts walking from an end of the couch to another, to my struggle, trying to keep the cup of coffee full and not spill it.

Then we end up, eventually, playing and he biting me until blood comes out and me yelling at him to stop.

Later I get to finally enjoy my cup of coffee and scroll on the phone, while he is sitting at the end of the couch and watches me.

He suddenly hears something on the stairs, and starts to act curious, listening very carefully and paying attention to every sound.

In a short time, he returns to me, meowing with curiosity, like asking me, what was that? And then he keeps looking at me for an answer while I stare baffled at him with a smile on my face.

Fifi usually spends the rest of his day sleeping, a large amount of time, I would say, but hey, he is a cat and that’s what cats do. Next he wakes up with an appetite for playing and for biting, especially when I am working. So, he starts scratching the chair for attention, and then I grab and place him in my lap.

He sits for a minute and purrs, and then starts to bite. Crunch, crunch, I disregard him for a moment but then I observe the pain, the blood and stop him again.

Sometimes, during the calls at work, while being busy with the customers and trying to pay attention to them, he looks intensely at me and starts to meow, as if he is talking to me.

The customer usually listens and does not say anything, until from his end I could hear a dog, curiously barking. Not very professional, but this is work at home and we need to deal with it 😅

At times, when we have guests (or used to have, before the quarantine) he was very thoughtful and payed attention to them, trying not to scratch or to hurt them in any way. While the kids were throwing a party, pulling him by the whiskers and yelling happily, he just stood like a nice cat and simply observed.

During the night he likes to take ownership over all the bed, and if possible, to bite us if we dare to disturb him.

In no time, when nobody pays attention he falls in a profound sleep.

I believe God loves me to have brought such a nice pet in my life. I realized a few weeks before that I was watching some nice cats, Ragdoll breed, before I even had him, years ago. I wished one so bad and God gifted him to me. 

“You cannot live with a paw in each world.”
― Erin Hunter, Into the Wild

Work at home week

Hello, dear readers! Lately, I did not get the chance of posting anything new on the blog as I had a full week, a lot of changes going on now with the Corona Virus outbreak.

We have been moved at home, being „recommended” to work remotely because of the virus situation. Plus, I got caught in home chores and duties and did not have enough amount of time to spend in Kate’s world blog, being too overwhelmed with everything. But I promise to get back! 🙂

How does it feel to work at home?

I got this question frequently from my friends and relatives lately. Moreover, some of them think that if I work from home I don’t do anything. Well, to be honest, it’s not like that. I tend to even work more and pay more attention to my job that I am working remotely and I am more focused on the client and his needs.

I have to recognize that it’s more comfortable to work from the home office, sitting on the comfy chair, being all rolled up in blankets with either a cup of hot brewed coffee or a hot cup of tea to start the day with.

I do miss my lovely colleagues and spending time with them, analyzing issues together and identifying solutions for work-related tasks. But we still have our Facebook groups and still, find a way to resolve problems while still keeping in touch.

And besides, I get to spend more time with my cat and abiding her from getting the sleep that she mostly requires 😂, for that reason I believe that she hates me. But I stopped her from sleeping all day and partying all night, scratching everything in the house and meowing like it’s the end of the world.

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Apart from that, I get to stay away from all the unhealthy foods and the mall and cook home meals, healthier and fat-free. I consume more lemon tea, eat more fruits and stay in shape by exercising.

Also now I stay away from cosmetics and try natural masks, having more healthy and clean skin. I don’t burn my hair anymore with flat or curling irons, instead, I leave my hair naturally free, braid it or keep it in a ponytail.

Besides, I have more free time for myself, I get to do more house chores and be more attentive to the family needs. No more waiting annoyed in the station as the bus is late, no more agglomeration in the malls, no more time lost in preparations to go to work, no more loud noise.

Conclusions

Overall, this experience with working at home and staying in quarantine because of the virus is not so bad for us and could be a lesson from which we can all learn a lot.

It’s very important to stay at home in quarantine to prevent the contamination that could occur, to stop spreading the virus and to fight against it. The authorities and the medical services are working over the clock to help the people affected by Covid19, this includes overtime hours and tiredness.

Let’s start paying attention to the rules that are raised in our help, being thankful that we are healthy and pray to God to help us pass this storm that rages against us. Stay at home, stay safe and stay protected! ⚔️

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Grumpy quotes for a peaceful Monday

Hello, dear readers. Today is Monday again and God decided to give us another amazing day to enjoy it to the fullest. With one minor change, my dear cat Fifi decided it will be interesting if she would wake me up at say, 5 AM in the morning.

I could not fall asleep for other 3 hours and had to wake up because I had to get write on the blog, exercise and get ready for work. Now she is sleeping because she had a rough night (obviously), scratching chairs material, running from one place to another and meowing like its the end of the world.

Now, as you might guess she is tired and sleeps peacefully in her favorite spot of the house. I think I should wake her up and scratch something, making her pay attention like she did this early morning. But I will focus on my blog instead, and on the sudden headache.

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So, this morning got me a little bit grumpy and angry with the cat situation and I am going to share with you a few grumpy funny quotes to loosen up and get ready for a wonderful, productive day.

Grumpy quotes

“Bad temper is its own scourge. Few things are more bitter than to feel bitter. A man’s venom poisons himself more than his victim.” ― Charles Buxton

“Never do anything when you are in a temper, for you will do everything wrong. ” ― Baltasar Gracian

“There’s a fine line between angry and grumpy. Angry isn’t nice, but grumpy is funny. ” ― Rick Wakeman

“Sometimes you can’t tell if you’re just in a bad mood or everyone around you is being annoying. ” ― Hussein Nishah

“No! I’m not ready, this is still my first cup of coffee!” ― Anthony Liccione

“Most annoying circumstances have brought you into the presence of a man who has broken all the ties of humanity. You have come to trouble my existence.” ― Jules Verne

“Am I grumpy? I might be. But I think maybe sometimes it’s misinterpreted.” ― Harrison Ford

“One of the very first things I figured out about life…is that it’s better to be a hopeful person than a cynical, grumpy one, because you have to live in the same world either way, and if you’re hopeful, you have more fun.” ― Barbara Kingsolver

“I wouldn’t say I was grumpy. It’s more pathological – I have seismic tantrums. I get red in the face and cry at least three times a week, and I have to lie down and have a nap afterwards.” ― Jenny Eclair

“A smile is nature’s best antidote for discouragement. It brings rest to the weary, sunshine to those who are frowning, and hope to those who are hopeless and defeated. A smile is so valuable that it can’t be bought, begged, borrowed, or taken away against your will. You have to be willing to give a smile away before it can do anyone else any good. So if someone is too tired or grumpy to flash you a smile, let him have one of yours anyway. Nobody needs a smile as much as the person who has none to give.” ―Dale Carnegie

“The grumpier you are, the more assholes you meet. ” ― Banksy

“Don’t talk to me. I’m tired and grumpy and I’ll probably make fun of you.” ― Ann Brashares

“I once got a postcard from a French poet who wrote – „you don’t know me but I’m always very grumpy when I get up in morning. But when I get up now I put the tea kettle on, and when it starts to sing it makes me smile – goddamn you!” That’s what happened when we first designed it – we got a lot of mail.” ― Michael Graves

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Lazy Monday Thoughts

Today is again, Monday. I say again because I do not know when this time passes, I feel that I can never fully enjoy the moments, to live the days that run out of the calendar.

I would sleep more, I would lie in bed, considering that in a few hours I have to prepare again for an endless week of work with a program loaded with core hours. But I cannot find my condition, I feel that I should do something and I stay instead.

Such a state of helplessness and lack of desire combined with an uneasiness of a tomb I have not had in a long time, or even ever. I think that those around me have the same feelings because I see them, I hear them shudder and they do not find their place, like insects lost somewhere in an early spring.

I would like to get out of bed, be active and make a difference today. But I do this every day, and when I have less desire to achieve something, then it all makes sense. Ironically, I would say.

Lazy cat, Fifi spreads softly on the soft and fine blanket and then rests again in a long sleep. His head is placed on his toes and his nose is stopped in the bushy tail. And I find myself looking at him as if I didn’t want to get out of bed like a lazy and comfortable cat in my turn.

It is months again and I seem to have lost all trace of desire and energy, feeling only the anxiety that embraces me like a snake, too tight. It’s hot weather though, but I wouldn’t want to enjoy it too early.

Lately, the sun and the hot weather have been like a chimera, appearing and disappearing at is will, without notifying when it arrives or when it leaves. I wish I could enjoy the sun’s rays and let myself be soothed by the warm expression of the wind, but it’s in a constant change.

I cover the sunbeam that emerges from the window with the heavy black curtain and I sit again in bed, moaning and enjoying the few minutes of sweet sleep remaining. It is only a matter of time until the alarm sounds again and I have to deal with Monday with the help of a bitter coffee.

But I still have 30 minutes… .

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