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Song of the day 15#

I don’t know why but I love Zaalima Boolywood song. Everywhere I go, especially when I’m on the road, I listen and sing this melody, out loud.

I hope it will give you the energy and the power to complete a fully loaded week, as it gives me.

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Publicat în Asta-i Romania!, English articles, Ganduri II

Friends become forgetful in time…

Intro
       Hello dear readers and bloggers! Oh, I apologize again, because of too tight work and homework I can not go to write so often. I promise, however, that I will write at least once a week, and I will always be back here on the blog to read your posts that you write with so much dedication and talent.
Story

         Everyone knows that weddings are an occasion for joy and fulfillment in a person’s life. Marriage is the beginning of a new journey from this short life, it is the celebration of every moment of life with your beloved person and in the future with the little miracles that will represent everything for you and will complete your destiny.

But also during the wedding party you can rejoin old friends, acquaintance forgotten over time.

Last night I witnessed a less pleasant happening, namely the reunion of a few friends from childhood, people who grew up together and shared good and bad but who separated themselves along the way, the thread of everyone’s life tangling on another snare.

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„Friend” nr. 1

„- Hey! How are you? You have not given any sign of life!

– Well, what else to do … good and bad to anyone !!

– What do you mean ?!

– I mean …

– How have you been?

– Well, I’ve been married in the meantime and working now, so my life is unfolding. You? Do not you have any thoughts about marriage?

– Me? No, he says, leaving his gaze in the ground. Now I’m working abroad … I’ve been to a warehouse, something. I worked.

– Oh, that’s good man! Are you okay?

„Yes, I’m fine …” he muttered to himself a few words.

Several incoherent replies followed because the interlocutor did not offer logical words.

„Friend” no. 2

„- Hey man! How are you?

– Hey, look at the wedding!

– How are you? You have not given any sign of life!

– Well, when … I work, I’m with my chores. How are you? You are fine?

„Yeah, with my wife here, I got married in the meantime,” he said proudly.

– Oh, man congratulations. I wish you happiness!

– Thank you!”

Behind the dialogue were hidden faces, considerations and elbows drawn to the next person.

At the exit, a photo of the bride was wanted. „Friends” took pictures before the couple, although they asked the first. During the photo session, the two friends laugh in jealousy and made signs about the couple.

Conclusion

True friendship resists time, distance and silence. The example I offer does not fit at all in this pattern, but on the contrary offers the opposite.

When we are children we do not know hate, we are not familiar with envy or other negative feelings; we choose the people around us as they make us feel, we are pure both inside and outside. We do not judge by appearances and preconceived thoughts, we are childish and accept reality as it is.

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In this example, people or „friends” are those who disapprove of behavior. An old friend is met by a comradeship worthy of friendship, family not by a few words spoken by the facade, and by an indirect so obvious language.

In this life we ​​know so many people, we become friends with people of various souls and body appearances. Samuel Butler said that friendships are like the money: easy to make and difficult to keep … in the same context, I also conclude that friendships should have nothing to do with money and social status, and that it should be difficult to be made and easy to keep.

I wish you a nice sunday!

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Publicat în Asta-i Romania!, Ganduri II

Prietenii se uita in timp…

Intro

Buna ziua dragi cititori si bloggeri! Oh, imi cer scuze din nou, din cauza programului prea restrans la serviciu si a treburilor de pe acasa nu mai apuc sa scriu asa de des. Promit totusi ca voi scrie macar o data la o saptamana, si voi reveni cu drag mereu aici, pe blog pentru a citi randurile voastre pe care le scrieti cu atata dedicatie si talent.

Povestire

Toata lumea stie ca nuntile sunt o ocazie de bucurie si de implinire in viata unei persoane. Casatoria inseamna inceputul unei noi calatorii din aceasta scurta viata, inseamna celebrarea fiecarui moment din viata alaturi de persoana iubita si pe viitor alaturi de micutele minuni ce vor reprezenta totul pentru voi si va vor completa destinul.

Dar de asemenea, in cadrul petrecerii de dupa cununie te poti reintalni cu vechi prieteni, cunostinte uitate in timp.

Aseara am fost martora a unei intamplari mai putin placute, si anume reintalnirea dintre cativa prieteni din copilarie, persoane ce au crescut impreuna si au impartit si bune si rele dar care s-au despartit pe parcurs, firul vietii fiecaruia impletindu-se pe alt snur.

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„Prietenul” nr. 1

” – Hey! Ce mai faci? Nu ai mai dat nici un semn de viata!

– Pai ce sa mai fac… bine si rau la nimeni!!

– Cum adica?!

– Adica!!…

– Tu ce ai mai facut?

– Pai m-am casatorit intre timp si cu munca acum, asa se desfasoara viata mea. Tu? Nu ai ganduri de casatorie?

– Eu? Nuu… spune el, lasandu-si privirea in pamant. Acum lucrez in strainatate… am mai fost pe la un depozit, ceva. Am muncit.

– Aha, e bine man! In rest esti bine?

– Daa, sunt bine… mormai el inspre sine cateva cuvinte.”

Au mai urmat cateva replici incoerente datorita faptului ca interlocutorul nu oferea raspunsuri demne de o conversatie logica.

„Prietenul nr. 2”

” – Buna man! Ce mai faci?

– Hey bine, uite la nunta si eu!

– Ce mai faci? Nu ai mai dat nici un semn de viata!

– Pai cand… muncesc si eu, sunt cu ale mele. Tu ce mai faci? Esti bine?

– Da, uite cu nevasta pe aici, m-am casatorit intre timp, spuse el mandru.

– Oo, felicitari man. Sa fiti fericiti!

– Multumim!”

In spatele dialogului se ascundeau priviri fatise, considerari si coate batute inspre persoana de langa.

La iesire, s-a dorit o fotografie cu mirii. „Prietenii” au facut poze inaintea cuplului, desi ei au cerut primii. In timpul sesiunii foto, cei doi radeau in zeflemea si isi faceau semne cu privire la cuplu.

Concluzie

Adevarata prietenie rezista timpului, distantei si tacerii. Exemplul oferit de mine nu se incadreaza deloc in acest tipar, ba din contra ofera opusul.

Cand suntem copii nu cunoastem ura, nu suntem familiriazati cu invidia sau alte sentimente negative; alegem persoanele din jur in functie de cum ne fac sa ne simtim, suntem puri atat in interior cat si pe exterior. Nu judecam in functie de aparente si gandiri preconcepute, suntem puerili si acceptam realitatea asa cum este ea.

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In exemplul dat, persoanele sau „prietenii” sunt cei care dezamagesc prin comportament. Un prieten vechi se intampina printr-o conduita demna de tovarasie, familiala nicidecum prin cateva cuvinte spuse de fatada, si printr-un limbaj indirect atat de evident.

In viata aceasta cunoastem atat de multe persoane, ne imprietenim cu oameni de diverse infatisari sufletesti si trupesti. Samuel Butler spunea ca prieteniile sunt ca banii: ușoare de făcut și greu de păstrat… in acelasi context, finalizez si eu cu gandul ca prieteniile ar trebui sa nu aiba nimic de a face cu banii si pozitia sociala, si ca ar trebui sa fie greu de facut si usor de pastrat.

O duminica placuta va doresc!

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Thought of the day 5# – THE RIGHT ONE

Originally I started this article when I was on the road. I felt the need of sharing the state of mind and the feelings that I had. I am sorry that I left the article unfinished and I will fix this.

Tuesday has been a rough day for me. I was on the road almost all day and when I get back I had stuff to do, both on work and at home.

But the thing that I had been the one who has been screamed at, argued with and quarrelled for mainly nothing made my day bad.

As I sad in those words back then, I couldn’t understand why all that fury and anger from other things that happened spilled on me… what was my fault? What in the world did I do so bad that everyone from everywhere I went had crazy eyes and a bad temper?

Fatigue, heat and all that fury overflowed to me made me wonder. Why those things happened to me that day?

In a few moments, I found myself crying in a chair of an institution waiting for a paper for which I had waited a half of day.

The agitated and hurried people stopped from their routine and watched as I swallowed my tears in sadness.

Conclusion

Tuesday was over and passed away like an usual day; as if nothing happened. Today is wednesday but my heart still remembers what made me cry and keeps an open eye.

At the end of the day all that matters is what made you happy and made you go through the day; the people you’ve met, the impact they’ve had on you… usually the best and happier things.

If I had learnt a thing from what happened to me that day was that nobody deserves to be treated bad, no one deserves your anger and bad mood and the main idea is that no one is guilty for what makes you feel that way.

In this crazy big world we all are stressed, all of us have our needs, our worries and problems but we need to be calm and act normal.

How screaming and acting bad will solve your problems? They will make it worse; today maybe you’ve met a person like me who just listens and takes responsibility but tomorrow maybe you’ll meet an angrier person who will not tolerate your bad mood and who knows what might happen. People won’t have time for you if you are always angry and complaining.

And just think, for every minute you remain angry you give up sixty seconds of peace of mind.

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Song of the day 14#

I love this song so much!

That much that I’m going to insert the lyrics.

It’s the kind of song you want to enjoy near a camp fire.

Lyrics
Si me toca escoger entre volverte a ver
O aceptar que te fuiste
Yo prefiero fingir que por ti estoy feliz
Aunque no me escogiste
Si me toca romper todo mi corazón
Para atarte a mi vida
Ya tendré que entender que en las guerras de amor
Siempre hay balas perdidas
No me obligues a disimular que quizá no te vi si te veo
Porque sabes que lo prometí, aunque si yo fuera tú, no me creo
Si me toca borrar cada marca que a ti te dejaron sus besos
Yo prefiero escribirles encima con los que faltan de los nuestros
Pude haber sido yo la que tiene tu corazón guardado
Pero alguien sin piedad me lo robó
Cuando por fin pensé haberlo atrapado fue que se escapó
Pude haber sido yo la que a tu lado siempre se despierte
Pero el futuro nunca nos llegó
Me prometí que nunca iba a perderte y no sé que pasó
Pude haber sido yo
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Si me toca esperarte
Lo haré y no desvaneceré con las horas (no desvaneceré)
Y aunque llegue alguien más y no te pueda hablar,
Es igual que estar sola
Sé que me cuesta ver
Que al final voy a ser yo quien termine herida
Pero debo entender que en las guerras de amor
Siempre hay balas perdidas
Pude haber sido yo la que tiene tu corazón guardado
Pero alguien sin piedad me lo robó
Cuando por fin pensé haberlo atrapado fue que se escapó
Pude haber sido yo la que a tu lado siempre se despierte
Pero el futuro nunca nos llegó
Me prometí que nunca iba a perderte y no sé qué pasó
Pude haber sido yo
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Pude haber sido yo,
Pero dejaste un loco enamorado
Buscando un beso tuyo en la estación
Y no hay peor desgracia que extrañar lo que nunca pasó
Pude haber sido yo la que a tu lado siempre se despierte
Pero el futuro nunca nos llegó (no llegó)
Me prometí que nunca iba a perderte y no sé que pasó
Pude haber sido yo (pude haber sido yo)
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
Oh oh oh oh oh
Si tú tan solo me hubieras pedido un consejo de amor
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