During the storm, things could look grim. You may not know where to turn or which way to go. In real life, new opportunities may not always lead to optimism and enthusiasm.
Certain situations may suit you, while others may not. It’s tough to make a decision when you have so few options. However, if there is one thing I have learned, you do not have to lower yourself to please situations or people that are not right for you.
You are destined to accomplish greatness, which cannot be attained if you stomp in every situation that does not feel right. Today’s reminder: don’t feel guilty or insulted if things don’t go as you’ve hoped.
Those past lessons you’ve learned are excellent teachers, and you don’t need to repeat the same patterns only to emphasize the same point. As a result, if things didn’t go as planned today because you said „No, I don’t deserve this” and dared to fight for what you’re worth, applaud yourself and remember that better situations and greater people await you on the other side.
Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.
I stepped into yet another storm. While God has been great to me, this new phase is full of challenges from all places, including work, relationships, and ailing family members.
I’ve discovered that it’s easy to be caught up in the storm’s roar and wind, to stare at the dismal sky, and to be afraid of the birds flying around your head. You don’t know where to go, what to do next, or how to fix the situation because it isn’t always in your control.
When I reflect on my life, I see that the most wonderful blessings came from circumstances where I was unsure of the future and frightened of how things would turn out and what shape my life would take. It happened for my most important milestones and the most amazing gifts I’ve yet to thank God for.
In those moments, it is easy to cry and feel powerless. Sometimes you want to feel sorry for yourself and turn to negative situations since they mirror your feelings and may make it easier to deal with. I’ve found that no matter how black the storm is, God never lets you fall to the bottom; by His grace, He always catches you and places you next to others who need you just as much as you do.
And if you are overwhelmed and want to do too much while putting yourself second, you will not be able to grow as wonderfully and be an example to those around you. God infused you with grace and bestowed upon you gifts and potential that only you can bring to the world.
Learn to give yourself the energy you require first, and then serve others. This does not necessarily come from a material source; I discovered that talking to Jesus and going to prayer is the best thing you can do for yourself in times of hardship. He has a wonderful, gentle way of reminding you that everything will be OK in the end and that you should focus on Him rather than the storm. He’s our best friend and advisor, particularly during storms.
If things are getting too much for you and you can’t find tranquility, take a moment to smell the sunflowers. Notice their wonderful forms and bulbs, how they sit together, how they move during the growing process, and how, to bloom, they must rise and look for their creator in the sky.
And remember that you are never alone. There are people and holy spirits behind you, driving you on and advising you of your future steps. And if you’re not sure about that, remember that special people are waiting for you ahead, bouncing about in tears of joy, eager for you to reach the safe spot and share this life with them.
We are caught in the midst of a wave of low, negative energy. We are tested at work and in our personal relationships, and it is obvious everywhere, including on WordPress. I’ve also seen a lot of negative and depressing posts from my fellow bloggers.
That harsh energy permeates everything around us. It’s like an infection that wreaks havoc on our feelings and then moves to our thoughts, causing us to think negatively and spread it around us like a disease.
Stormy days
I’ve had to cope with challenging situations and trauma. Adversity not only makes you wiser and more mature, but it also makes you more sensitive. People in your life can promote insecurity and keep you stuck in a cycle of trauma.
I didn’t know how to handle that and stop allowing these people into my personal space because I love them. The experts advise you to set boundaries and be confident, but it doesn’t always work. Just when you think you love those special people, they stroll in with dirty shoes and ruin everything beautiful you worked so hard to build.
When they feel they’ve made another mistake, they ask questions, act like angels, and force you to divulge everything that can make you blame them and rethink your decision. Sometimes that doesn’t work, and you’re exhausted on the inside.
Weary of defending your actions, of them making you feel bad about yourself because you acknowledge their shortcomings, and of moving on. When you add up all the things that happen outside of those relationships it gets worse.
The way out is through
It’s easy to become emotionally involved, yet on the other end of the spectrum, being rational is the way out. We are creatures of habit, and saying what we think comes easy, but it isn’t always the best way out. Arguing, hurling insults, and continuously defending and blaming others will not solve the problem.
I can’t count how many long mental conversations I had, how many times I won, and how many times I wept. The only time things improved was when I bowed my knees in prayer and asked Jesus to help me. I told Him I was tired of trying, of patching things up and carrying the burdens of others.
His answer was simple. The only way out is through. Yes, self-help books may help you gain perspective and broaden your horizons, but we can’t do it all on our own; we weren’t created that way, which is why we have a Creator. We must go through everything. The tears, the hurts, and the frightening moments; for they all have a purpose, and those sharpened edges won’t soften on their own. We’re growing as a result, and the movement we’re afraid of is necessary.
In that process, read your Bible and grow in faith:
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.
It is important to remember that we are not expected to do anything. We shall be delivered the instant we surrender our cross and allow Jesus to bear it.
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