Thought of the day 20#

Decisions, decisions and decisions, we rule our entire life by those strings. Sometimes I just stay and think, I just meditate about the present period but don’t usually think about future. Quotes say to live in the moment and enjoy the present, but what if sometimes hurried choices contour your life in future?… .

Things are meant to happen in time, one by one, step by step just to be felt and lived in  entire proportion. Patience should be the thing which enlightens our way, always and forever. It’s just sad that reality teaches us this fact, later, when it hurts the most.

We are young, we live and we love. Rules are not respected all the time and are there just for presence, and to be over-passed. When we are young we are free and do almost whatever we want, we go savage and live life to the fullest.

The heart is so fragile and easy to be broken, that we don’t even realize when that happens. It’s all laughs and happiness until left alone in solitude, and your heart just starts skipping a beat. Tic-tac, all the time on the watch of life, but time is always cruel.

We want to make a difference, to be someone, to be independent and fully responsible of our facts and decisions. We want to own the situation and be 100% proud of our development and courage that we have given proof in life, building huge castles of sand.

But castles of sand no matter how huge, they will always collapse at the strongest wave. And those situations you owned in past make no difference in the now situations, the ex future. Young souls are supposed to get crushed, turn into sand and after that be a part of something beautiful and huge again.

That is our life’s trace usually, get up and be awesome, fall back in our knees again, turn into flat sand, and rise again. The heart might get lost sometimes, but we should always use our brains just to get in the fact, accept the reality and move on.

William Shakespeare once written: I must be cruel, only to be kind. One should always be tough with a personal self, just to improve and become better in time.


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The blogger recognition award

Hello dear writers and readers!


This week I have been nominated by Rad Gamer with the prize of Blogger Recognition Award. It’s a real pleasure and honor for me to be nominated by such a good blogger and consistent writer.

The rules of this award are:

  • Thank the blogger that nominated you and give a link to their site;
  • Do a post to show your award;
  • Give a summary of how the blog started in the first place;
  • Give two pieces of advice for any new bloggers;
  • Select at least 15 bloggers for this award;
  • Let each nominee know you’ve nominated them and give a link to your post.

I must say that this is the first time I have been nominated for this award. I will be sharing with you the story of how my blog started:

This blog „took life” in 2013, five years ago. To be honest I didn’t give that much thought back in those days, I just had an eager wish to write, I wanted that with all of my heart and mind. I seem amazed by the think that people could read what you write and could appreciate your effort, your talent, that what you write today wouldn’t be forgotten in years on a old piece of paper.

Now, looking back I wouldn’t give up on writing for anything in the whole world. Writing is a part of me and will always be, it’s more than a hobby and more than a desire. I just wish to learn more and more, and in time be a successful writer, I want to inspire people.

I must say that even though I have spent 5 years on this platform I feel that I’m not yet an excellent blogger and that I still want to accumulate more knowledge, I want to develop even more.

My two small pieces of advice for any new bloggers are:

  1. Be yourself. Let words you write be your way of expressing YOU, as a person, as an entity; let those words define and talk about the real you. Be sincere.
  2. As Rad Gamer said, you have to be consistent. The words you write have to have a logic and a certain length. You can’t just write two sentences and finish an article. Admit that before you write for readers you write for yourself. Before publishing a new article, ask yourself: Am I satisfied by the post? Do I enjoy the quality of it? If you like the post then the readers must love it.

The 15 nominees for this award are:

  1. Emile Therese
  2. Erwin Wensley
  3. Myplace3187
  4. OldPoet56
  5. IntrovertedPyraLid
  6. Libarah
  7. DreamGoExplore
  8. Currently Aple
  9. Sikhawork
  10. GetYourOwnStyle
  11. Dede’s Blog
  12. Elganspo
  13. Our Life in 3D
  14. CKO
  15. Laleh Chini

In the end I want to thank again Rad Gamer for giving me this amazing award and wish him all the success and luck in the blogger world!