Thought of the day 9#

      Nici nu stiu cu ce ar trebui sa incep… .Ma rezum totusi la faptul ca mi-a fost dor de blog, de voi. Am avut o saptamana incarcata de sentimente si intamplari, care mai de care mai ample si mai putin iritante.

Dupa cum am povestit in articolele precedente, am finalizat un capitol prematur inceput din aceasta viata. Acum, sunt in cautarea unui nou capitol, mai bun si prosper insa din pacate nu-mi gasesc inspiratia, imi lipsesc randuri din cartea vietii si privesc la pagini goale.

Caut raspunsuri in locuri diverse, ma afund in amalgamuri de noi informatii si acumulez… din pacate mari nimicuri.

Imi petrec ore in sir in fata ecranului alb, pe site-uri specializate cautand indicii despre viitor, despre scopuri si dorinte. Ma innec intr-o baie de multime, socializez cu necunoscuti dar nimeni nu pare sa imi fure inima. Tot ceea ce acumulez sunt promisiuni si fagaduieli desarte.

Ma afund in ganduri felurite si visez la noi apusuri, la noi orizonturi.

Un element statornic si din ce in ce mai prezent este speranta. Si incapatinarea. Faptul ca imi cunosc puterile si aspiratiile ma determina sa nu renunt, sa duc lupta la un alt nivel. De foarte multe ori, din pacate ma lovesc de ziduri mari prin care nu trec sabiile launtrice si razboiul se opreste pentru cateva momente.

In ciuda lacrimilor amar-sarate ce se revarsa pe chip, imi ridic armele ca un soldat ranit si continui sa caut raspunsuri, continui sa caut o cale de iesire.

Un lucru e cert si sigur. Inapoi nu am cum sa ma mai intorc, si o cale de mijloc nu exista. Din toate incercarile la care am fost supusa pana in prezent am invatat ca trebuie sa imi pastrez calmul si orice as face nu trebuie sa renunt.

Sansele mele exista, chiar daca in acest moment ma invart intr-un cerc de ceata si nesiguranta. Va aparea si locul potrivit pentru mine, doar ca se afla pe undeva, la capatul vreunui tunel intunecat.

Sunt constienta ca aceasta incercare are un rol important si voi avea ceva de invatat. De asemenea stiu ca in urma acestui capitol incetosat ultimele randuri vor concluziona de ce restul paginilor sunt voalate, si ca de fapt trebuiau simtite nicidecum citite limpede.

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English version


I do not even know what I should start with … . I still have to summarize the fact that I missed the blog, I missed you. I have had a week full of emotions and events that were more ample and less irritating.

As I have mentioned in the previous articles, I have completed a premature chapter from this life. Now, I’m looking for a new chapter, better and prosperous, but unfortunately I can not find my inspiration, I miss the rows of the book of life and look at blank pages.
I’m looking for answers in various places, I am amalgamous with new information and I am collecting … unfortunately nothing importantly big.

I spend hours in front of the white screen on specialized sites looking for clues about the future, about goals and desires. I drown in a bath of many unknown people, socialize with strangers, but nobody seems to steal my heart. All that I accumulate are vague promises.
I am caught in various thoughts and I dream of new landscapes and new horizons.

A steadfast and more and more present element is hope. And stubborness. Being aware of my powers and aspirations causes me not to give up, to take the fight to another level. Many times, unfortunately, they hit me with large walls that do not cross the inner swords and the war stops for a few moments.

Despite the bitter-salty tears streaming over my face, I pick up my weapons as a wounded soldier and continue to look for answers, continuing to look for a way out.

One thing is certain.I can not get back, and a middle way does not exist. From all the trials I have been subjected to so far I have learned that I must keep my calm and whatever I do I do not have to give up.

My chances exist, even if at this moment I’m in a circle of fog and insecurity. There will also be a right place for me, just somewhere at the end of a dark tunnel.

I am aware that this test has an important role and I will have something to learn. I also know that after this blurred chapter the last lines will conclude why the rest of the pages are veiled, and that they really should not have been read but felt crystal clean.


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Probleme cotidiene/Daily issues

Nu-i asa ca uneori aveti impresia ca sunteti inconjurati de oameni care nici macar nu au un motiv pentru care se afla in preajma voastra? Nu stiu de ce dar in ultima vreme eu am simtit asta foarte puternic.

Sunt unele persoane care in anumite momente critice genereaza dintr-un creier putin folosit raspunsuri si comportamente cat mai impertinente posibil.

In acest articol voi detalia cateva din momentele iritante petrecute in ultima perioada.

Cazul I

In urma cu cateva zile completam cateva sondaje de la Daedalus si nu stiu de ce, dar mie mi se intampla sa dau de erori la 4/10 sondaje in cazul acestei companii. Mi se intampla sa ajung la jumatatea chestionarului si sa ma lovesc de probleme de ordin tehnic, IT.

Spre exemplu, la intrebarea 25, din cadrul unei testari de reclama mi se cerea sa mut un atribut intr-o casuta x, corespunzatoare parerii mele de consumator. Bun, pana aici toate bune si frumoase, cu exceptia faptului ca nu puteam la propriu, muta atributul in casuta. Am tras de cuvintele alea cateva secunde pana am realizat ca este o problema. Dau sa merg inainte la urmatoarea intrebare, era logic sa nu ma lase pentru ca nu aveam cum raspunde, incerc sa mut din nou cu mouse-ul nici gand si tocmeala.

Aleg sa reclam problema la Daedalus. Dupa doua zile primesc si eu raspunsul la intrebarea mea. Nu stiam daca sa rad sau sa ma enervez la ce raspuns am primit:

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Eu cred ca aceasta lectie am invatat-o la varsta de 8 anisori cand mi-am luat PC, si care cunostinta am dezvoltat-o apoi la orele de informatica din cadrul scolii. Adica, pe bune?!

Cum sa imi dea un raspuns asa nefolositor cand de fapt problema era alta? Hai ca poate mai intelegeam si eu sa imi admita ca exista o problema de browser (desi nu era cazul, am incercat sondajele pe 5 browsere diferite)… ah si la urma imi ia si dreptul de a mai completa odata sondajul, ca deh, eu nu stiu notiuni de informatica de baza.

Cazul II

In ultimii ani datorita serviciilor practicate in diverse domenii mi s-a oferit sansa de a lucra impreuna, de a instrui si supraveghea angajatii.

La o prima vedere, ai crede ca angajatii sunt oameni seriosi si competenti, care nu ar avea nevoie de tutorat si ca ar intelege anumite lucruri si s-ar comporta matur, conform infatisarii si tinutei pe care o afiseaza.

Dar, din nou viata ma surprinde. Nu de putine ori mi-a fost dat sa vad oameni certandu-se pentru un nimic, spunandu-si reciproc cuvinte grele si dand vina unul pe celalalt, aruncandu-si „vina” precum copii mingea unora altora. Mai mult decat atat, precum niste copii razgaiati dau fuga la sef si parasc unul neputinta si lipsa de gandire a celuilalt.

Intr-un astfel de colectiv, cu astfel de persoane nu numai ca iti este dificil sa ii intelegi, dar iti este si greoi sa lucrezi si sa te dezvolti ca persoana. (I can’t work with that!!)

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Cazul III

Cu totii stim, cu serviciile de telefonie, internet si gaz/curent mereu este si va fi bataie de cap. Esti client, ai drepturi. Cam asa speculeaza marile companii furnizoare de servicii de pe piata romaneasca, care incurajeaza oamenii in a le folosi serviciile.

Sa luam Orange, de exemplu. Parintii, cunostintele, rudele si prietenii – pana si necunoscutii folosesc Orange. De ce? Simplu! Pentru ca are acoperire mai mare de semnal si ofera abonamente avantajoase (sau cel putin asa se lauda).

In urma cu doi anisori am decis si eu sa imi deschid abonament pe numele meu, cu telefon nou, pachet complet.  Dupa un an de zile de platit, de depasit suma de pe abonament mi-a cam plecat simtul responsabilitatii si dorinta de a fi independenta. Am ramas totusi pe Orange, cu abonament pe care il platesc cu 10 zile inainte de termen pentru a evita penalizarile, ce sunt evident usturatoare.

Cazul IV

E-nergia, mama ei dara! Acum doi ani mi-a batut la usa o duduie ce se batea cu pumnul in piept ca este angajata a firmei E-on si ca imi prezinta o oferta de care o sa fiu cu siguranta multumita si ca nu o sa regret alegerea facuta. Nu numai ca am regretat, dar am ramas si stupefiata!

De fapt, „duduia Leana” era angajata misterios la E-nergia si cauta noi clienti. Am aflat cand doream sa achit factura la gaz pentru E-ON, nu ma aflam in baza lor de date pentru ca eram prezenta in catalogul unei alte companii. Ca sa pot reveni din nou la E-ON trebuie sa merg tocmai la Targu Mures sa ma reconectez… pe bune?!

Am rezistat pana acum tot pe E-nergia, ca deh. Targu Mures e departe si timp ioc… desi iarna la ce sume impresionante achit lunar ma cam motiveaza sa fac o plimbare.

Cazul V

UPC si angajatii competenti. Aceste doua elemente ce tocmai le-am specificat sunt cam in contrast unele cu altele. Data aceasta cand mi-am reinnoit abonamentul la ei, am primit cadou un modem nou!

Cee frumos! Noh, problema este acum ca dragul de tehnician de la UPC s-a cam grabit. A instalat in doi timpi si trei miscari modemul si a plecat ca vantul. 8 Zile fara Internet… cei de la configurare dadeau vina pe cei de la echipa de tehnicieni fizici, si vice-versa.

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Cu situatii ca acestea si oameni ca cei pe care i-am descris… sper sa mai am rabdarea si inspiratia sa mai revin aici cu idei proaspete si ganduri mai bune. O saptamana minunata si lipsita de peripetii, dragi cititori!

English Version

Don’t you sometimes think that you are surrounded by people who do not even have a reason for being near you? I do not know why but lately I felt this very strong.

There are some people who, at certain critical moments, generate from their little brain used the most impertinent answers and behaviors possible.

In this article I will detail some of the irritating moments last month.

Case I

A few days ago I completed some Daedalus polls and I do not know why, but I am making mistakes in 4/10 surveys for this company. I happen to get to half the questionnaire and then to stop because of the technical problems, in IT field.

For example, in question 25, in an advertising test, I was asked to move an attribute into an x box, corresponding to my opinion of the consumer. Okay, up here all good and beautiful, except I could not really move the attribute in the box. I drew those words for a few seconds until I realized it was a problem. I moved ahead to the next question, it was logical not to leave me because I did not have the answer, I try to move again with my mouse and guess what? It didn’t happen.

I choose to refer the matter to Daedalus. After two days I get the answer to my question. I did not know whether to laugh or annoy at what answer I received:
They said I was not aware of how to draw an atribute to a box.

I think this lesson I learned at the age of 8 when I got my PC, and I learned it later in computer science classes in the school. I mean, are you for real?!

How could they answer such an unhelpful answer when the problem was different? Come on, if they would have admited that there was a browser problem (although not the case, I tried polls on 5 different browsers) … ah and finally I also have the right to fill in the survey once more, as deh , I do not know basic computer science.

Case II

In recent years, thanks to services in various fields, I have been given the chance to work together, to train and supervise employees.

At first glance, you would think that employees are serious and competent people who would not need tutoring and would understand certain things and behave maturely according to the appearance and the outfit they are displaying.

But again life surprises me. Not many times I have been given to see people arguing for nothing, telling each other their heavy words and blaming each other, throwing „blame” like children’s ball to each other. More than that, like a crying baby they flee to the boss and tell them and leave the other helplessness without thinking of the other person.

In such a collective, such people not only find it difficult to understand, but it is also difficult for you to work and develop as a person. (I can not work with that !!)
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Case III

We all know, with telephone, internet and gas / current services is always going to be a headache. You are a client, you have rights. That’s what the big service companies on the Romanian market speculate, encouraging people to use their services.

Let’s get Orange, for example. Parents, acquaintances, relatives and friends – even the strangers use Orange. Why? Simple! Because it has higher signal coverage and offers advantageous subscriptions (or at least that’s what they say).

Two years ago, I also decided to open my subscription on my name, with a new, full package phone. After a year of pay, to exceed the amount on the subscription, I was left with a sense of responsibility and a desire to be independent. I have stayed on Orange though with a subscription. I pay 10 days before the deadline to avoid the penalties, which are obviously frightening.

Case IV

E-nergy, her mother darling! Two years ago, I was struck by a women who refferrs to me as an employee of E-on and she presented me an offer that I will definitely be happy with and will not regret the choice made. Not only did I regret, but I was stunned too!

In fact, „Leana duana” was mysteriously committed to E-nergia and was looking for new clients. I found out when I wanted to pay the gas bill for E-ON, I was not in their database because I was present in another company’s catalog. So if I want to go back to E-ON again I have to go to Targu Mures to reconnect… why GOD?!

We have resisted to E-nergia so far, as deh. Targu Mures is a long way to go … although in winter, what impressive amounts I pay for a month motivates me to take a walk.

Case V

UPC and competent employees. These two elements we have just outlined are in contrast with one another. This time when I renewed my subscription to them, I received a new modem gift!

That is beautiful! Noh, the problem is now that UPC’s tech is a little rushed. They installed the modem in two times and three moves and left like the wind. 8 Days without Internet … those at the setup blamed those from the team of physical technicians, and vice versa.

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With situations like these and people like those I described … I hope to have the patience and inspiration to come back here with fresh ideas and better thoughts. A wonderful and and careless week, dear readers!

Atitudinea la locul de munca/ Attitude at work

Jobul nostru, indiferent de domeniul si zona studiata, mereu va fi pe primul loc deoarece ne ofera posibilitatea de a ne dezvolta si de a creste intr-un mediu productiv alaturi de oameni calificati.

Un lucru important de care trebuie sa tinem cont este atitudinea la locul de munca.

Persoanele cu care impartim in fiecare zi task-urile oferite, colegii si sefii sunt foarte importanti. In principal pentru ca ei reprezinta mediul de lucru, ei sunt cei care ne intampina in fiecare zi si cei care ne ghideaza in drumul profesional.

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Sfaturi si idei

Fie ca esti un angajat nou sau chiar unul vechi lucrul esential ce nu trebuie sa lipseasca este respectul. Nu iti cad gradele daca saluti cu consideratie managerul sau sefa, si in nici un caz n-o sa ti le castigi daca ramai tacut si nepoliticos.

De foarte multe ori suntem certati sau ni se atrage atentia cand gresim un anumit task. Singurul lucru demn de realizat este sa ne acceptam greseala si sa remediem eroarea. Stiu, uneori este mai usor sa ridici glasul si sa dai vina pe altcineva, dar e mai bine sa fii responsabil; mai mult decat atat daca dai vina pe altii, in viitor ti se va intoarce, inmiit chiar.

In cazul in care realizezi ca nu te impaci bine cu colegii si aveti mentalitati diferite atunci verifica mai intai sa vezi daca nu este ceva in neregula cu tine. Dupa ce ai facut asta, incearca sa intelegi si comportamentul colegului/colegei si daca nici asa nu gasesti o solutie fii pur si simplu nonsalant/a.

(DEX – NONȘALÁNT adj. v. degajat, dezinvolt, firesc, natural, neafectat, neartificial, necăutat, neprefăcut)

Fii sincer/a si neprefacuta. Lumea iubeste acest lucru si cu siguranta nimeni nu iubeste un „kiss ass”.

Incearca sa nu iti expui viata personala, sentimentele, emotiile si trairile. Sunt anumite lucruri personale ce trebuie mentinute pentru sine, pentru cei dragi si familie. De foarte multe ori persoanele de la serviciu vor incerca sa gaseasca din ceea ce relatezi tu un subiect de barfa, sa comenteze rautacios situatia, desi in fata iti vor vorbi frumos.

Indiferent de situatie, fii pozitiv/a. Alunga pesimismul si gandeste-te ca exista o solutie la problema ta, fiind pesimist este posibil sa adaugi un grad de dificultate situatiei si te vei inneca si in mai multa nesiguranta. Fii stapan/a pe tine si trateaza chestiunea cu curaj!

Pesimismul, lipsa increderii de sine si dezorganizarea pot fi cei mai mari dusmani ai tai! – Daca gandesti negativ, daca te plangi ca nu vei putea duce la bun sfarsit task-ul si esti dezorganizat/a sigur vei esua! Fii optimist/a, ai incredere in tine si fii organizat/a!

Pune-ti ordine in ganduri si in actiuni. Prima mea sarcina de la birou a fost sa clasific si sa ordonez documente. Nu numai ca te ajuta in a fi ordonat/a pe viitor dar iti este si mai usor sa le gasesti si sa le intelegi!

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Concluzii personale

Locul de munca poate implica persoane cu comportamente si atitudini diferite. Cu siguranta, in toate acea mare de lume va exista o fiinta pe care nu o vei suferi, una care nu se incadreaza in gusturile tale si care te va supune la incercari. De fapt, toti acesti oameni, fie ca discutam despre sefi care tot timpul ne vor fi superiori si care tot timpul vor gasi o strategema prin a ne arata inferiori lor sau acei colegi ce ne vor pune bete in roate sunt de fapt adevarati dascali ce ne vor „instrui” pe parcursul drumului profesional.

Desi ai fost inundat/a de o suvoaie de energii negative, si au fost multi oameni osteniti si iritati de jobul prea agasant, care si-au lasat pur si simplu amprenta murdara pe psihicul tau ia un burete si sterge. Nu lasa sa se adune furia si iritarea in tine, cei de acasa nu au absolut nici o vina ca tu ai avut o zi incarcata si neagra. Maine probabil colegii tai vor uita ce s-a petrecut la serviciu si vor zambi dar cei de acasa vor tine minte si vei acumula sentimente negative.

La sfarsitul zilei, tot ceea ce conteaza este ceea ce am reusit sa facem in acea zi. Daca, este ora 5 sau stai peste program si este ora 9, inchide ochii si multumeste-i Domnului pentru energia ce ti-a dat-o sa finalizezi atatea task-uri si ca ai un loc de munca si o familie frumoasa, ai pentru ce lupta si munci.

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English version

Our job, regardless of the field and the studied area, will always occupy the first place because it offers us the opportunity to develop and grow in a productive environment with qualified people.

One important thing to keep in mind is attitude at work.

The people with whom we share our daily tasks, colleagues and bosses are very important. Mainly because they represent the working environment, they are the ones who welcome us every day and those who guide us on the professional road.

Tips and Ideas

Whether you are a new or an old employee, the essential thing you should not miss is respect. Your grades won’t fall if you salute the boss manager or manager, and you will not win it if you remain silent and rude.

We are often arguing or being told if we make mistakes during a certain task. The only thing to do is to accept the mistake and fix the error. I know, sometimes it’s easier to raise your voice and blame someone else, but it’s better to be responsible; even more, if you blame others, in the future you will be blamed thousandfold.

If you realize that you are not coping well with your colleagues and having different mentalities, then first check to see if there is something wrong with you. Once you’ve done this, try to understand the behavior of your colleague and if you can not find a solution, just be nonsensical.

(DEX – Nonsensical adjunct v. Degenerate, desinvolt, natural, natural, unaffected, unnatural, untouched)

Be honest and unforgettable. The world loves this and certainly nobody loves a „kiss ass”.

Try not to expose your personal life, feelings, emotions, and feelings. There are certain personal things that need to be kept for oneself, for loved ones and family. Many times, people at work will try to find out what you’re telling a gossip topic, to comment badly on the situation, although they will speak nice in front of you.

Whatever the situation, be positive. Eliminate pessimism and think that there is a solution to your problem, being pessimistic is likely to add a degree of difficulty to the situation and will drown you in more uncertainty. Be your master and treat the matter with courage!

Pessimism, lack of self-confidence and disorganization can be your greatest enemies! – If you think negatively, if you complain that you will not be able to complete the task and you are disorganized / you will surely fail! Be optimistic, have trust in yourself and be organized!

Put order in your thoughts and actions. My first job in the office was to classify and order documents. Not only does it help you to be ordered in the future but it’s even easier to find and understand them!

Personal Conclusions

Work may involve people with different behaviors and attitudes. Surely, in all that great world there will be a being that you will not suffer, one that does not fit your tastes and will make you try harder. In fact, all of these people, whether we are talking about bosses who will always be superior to us and who will always find a way to show us we are inferior to them or those colleagues who will put „sticks in the wheel” are actually real teachers which will „train” along the professional road.

Eventhough you were flooded by a swarm of negative energies, and there were many people overworked and irritated by the job too aggressive, who simply left the dirty footprint on your psyche take a sponge and wipe it off. Do not let the rage and irritation gather in you, the family have no blame for having a busy day and a black one. Tomorrow, your colleagues will probably forget what happened at work and they will smile, but those who are at home will remember and get negative feelings.

At the end of the day, everything that matters is what we managed to do that day. If it’s 5 o’clock, or if you’re out of schedule and it’s 9 o’clock, close your eyes and thank God for the energy you gave her to complete so many tasks and that you have a job and a beautiful family, for which you can struggle and work.